Saturday, November 22, 2008
The shameful things that women do!
This week has been strange. I some how got dragged into a matter involving two couples- one of them being a relative. Interestingly, his boo broke up with him because he is a goat and so on. It all started at 0230 when I got a call from this relative and I answered- now I am a worrier. So I asked is everything ok. He replies please stay on the phone, she is here and I want you to just talk to me. She comes in hugs and kisses him and then gets angry made a few comments and leaves. Then I ask, wassup? he answers, she broke up with me three months ago and we talked about it- she said we are not compatible but she has not been able to let me go since then. She wants me to go to the mall with her? she wants to change at my house? she wants to stop by whenever she wants to? she harasses me with constant text messages? she has accused my friends of wanting to sleep with her. She wants me to have no friends- she wants to see me miserable- I mean how can I move on with my life. hmmm interesting I say...he cont'd she has even threatened to run me over with her car and wash me bleed. I say...OMG! what did you do? Nothing while I was with her but she constantly accuses me of using her because of mistakes I made before my relationship with her. His mother is concerned and worried. So I go out of my way to try and reason with the girl- I mean you never know, there might be something I don't know. She replies me with a lot of anger more towards this relative, mainly about not getting an apology and that she was used. In the end she says she is trying to move on, so I encourage her and tell her to focus on moving on before she makes the biggest mistake of her life... interestingly she comes back with constant persistence about how everyone around her has done wrong- how something is everyone's fault but nothing is her fault. I got frustrated and thought- well that's it maybe his mom can reason with her mom. Especially, since I can't reason with her and his life might be possibly in danger. Somehow, she discovered my intentions and went aloof, accusing him of stealing gifts she bought for him, accusing him of abuse and rape and threatening to contact the po po- it gets better or worst. Calls his friends and shares secrets about them to hurt them and turn them against this poor guy. She drags more people into the "nothing" plus confusion. Can we grow up please! I advised this relative to return all of the gifts and he packed it up and gave it to a friend to give it to her- interestingly she refused to accept it from his friend because she wanted to make a public scene and sending a friend will not allow her that honor. This friend ended up throwing it into her car and walking away and she shamefully drove off. The shameful things that women do for the sake of men. It was a sour day in the sweet bitter life of muah!